currently in transition

I am 20, pansexual, and I am just looking for myself in this world
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Currently taken - 2/26

All my life I knew I was different, I just never knew how. This is all about my life, the real transition, all the dirty details. So view and read at you're own discretion because this will be dealing with the life of a trans-gendered teen.

pansy-boy replied to your post: Guys I need some help

I’d highly recommend anything made by vixen creations - they come with a life time guarantee as well!

I was thinking that but she doesn’t really like any of them and if they all feel like the Mr. Right I’m not sure if I would even want one since I don’t like the texture. Also I’m not sure if any of them are really long enough which is a downside too.

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so my gf broke my penis….we finally got the house alone and went at it like crazy but now my cock is out of comission. I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions on which is the best/worst in terms of sex. I’m looking for something realistic and at least 7” insertable since she likes it a bit longer. 

So if you guys know of any or even just have input into which ones are better to you personally I’d love it.

I’ll post a pic of what happened to it later after I wake up.

transtoons:

Using a Go Girl STP like a boss.
NHS,FTM Journal style comic by UK Transman, catch him on Deviant art at: Ragged-Prince

transtoons:

Using a Go Girl STP like a boss.

NHS,FTM Journal style comic by UK Transman, catch him on Deviant art at: Ragged-Prince

guessishouldhavebeenlikeher:

A-1 Self Storage 
Auto Zone 
Babies R Us 
Boy Scouts 
Celestial Seasonings 
Chick-Fil-A 
Cinemark 
Cracker Barrel 
Dole 
Domino’s Pizza 
Exxon Mobil 
Gold’s Gym 
Humana 
John Deere 
Keebler 
Kellogg 
Meijer 
Purina 
Radio Shack 
Salvation Army 
Sam’s Club 
Toys R Us 
Urban Outfitters 
Walmart

edoro:

A while ago, there was a list passed around of doctors (and surgeons, maybe?) who would give you hormones (or do surgery, maybe?) without a letter from a therapist.

If anyone can rustle that up for me, I’d really appreciate it! If anyone also knows of any surgeons who will do top surgery without requiring you to be on hormones or have a letter from a therapist, that would be really awesome too. People in the US are preferred here, especially in or around Michigan/Ohio.

Thanks!

I went to Doctor Garramone in Florida and he does not require you to be on hormones before surgery or even right after. He does, like any surgeon, require you to have a letter to get surgery. I had my PCP write my letter after I explained to her what it was for and gave her the information on what I needed to do before I could have surgery i.e. pre-op check list Dr. G. gave me. I did not see a therapist at all and do not see a reason in which I should. Though I am not saying no one needs to see one, some people may feel the need to before getting surgery or hormones.

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Thought I’d let my followers know

Thought I’d let my followers know

tboyalex said: Hey! I heard you were in the market for a better penis! Just wanted to throw this in there, If you are interested in LolaJake by any chance, I am their First and Only affiliate! WOOHOO! If you want to end up getting a LolaJake then just put the code TBOYALEX in and you will get 10% off. 15% of your purchase will go to me, which i use to help fund my program which helps aid trans* youth across america with their transitions! so yea... thanks! :) good luck on the hunt for a good one

Well that’s awesome, it’s cool that you’re the first. As of right now a new penis has to wait but maybe my followers would like to check them out. I’ve visited their site recently and it’s all new, they seem to be a better business now.

Also if anyone has a LolaJake model I’d love to hear from you.

So guys if you’re interested in LolaJake, or are just curious go check them out and if you like what you see you can get 10%off

Tag(s): #tboyalex

463745661245:

Recently, as I browsed Tumblr, I’ve noticed a large amount of “Transgender” members of this community admit to having various mental health issues. Some being Bi-polar, DID, forms of autism and so on. This got me thinking, and as idiotic  as it sounds, I have to know: Are transgender people mentally unfit (Or just the tumblr community)?

I mean, there is Gender identity disorder, and even though many LGBT and trans based communities wish to have its status as a mental disorder revoked… I just can’t help but wonder if there’s not some correlation, especially with the large amount of people claiming Autism and various other mental health issues\disorders.

So, what do you folks think? (Some) Trannies have a mental issue and some are legit, or are people just being idiotic and lumping various things together for attention? 

First off, this needs to be addressed. The word tranny and all of it’s forms is in no way to ever be used. It is offensive and demeaning. Some transgener/transsexual people may call themselves a tranny or a variation of it but for most it is a demeaning word much like how blacks were called niggers.

Transgender people are just like ordinary people, the only difference is their birth defect. So anyone who is transgender or transsexual may also have any sort of disease or mental illness. The two do not have any sort of connection. The reason people seem to be “claiming” to have sorts of mental illnesses is because they either a) have them b) doctors think they have them c)or they may be wanting attention.

And GID is already looked at to be the wrong diagnosis. Being transgender is not a mental illness and hasn’t been seen as such since around the 1970s when it was published as being corrected. Yes, it is still written in and has not been changed on a nation wide level, since it still is required by law to be diagnosed with GID to have approval to get any form of SRS, but it is recognized as being wrong. 

Tag(s): #trans

ridakulous:

At one point in your life you are bound to run into a trans* person, a genderqueer person or someone who challenges the way you view things. Hopefully, you’ll befriend someone (unless they’re an asshole - it’s okay to not be friends with someone if they’re an asshole, but not just because they confuse you) who does fall into one of these nonbinary (i.e. male/female) categories.

We all want to be good friends right? Well, most of us do. There are certain things you should never say to a trans* person, even if they have been your best friends since the womb. Let’s just take a look at that right now.

1. What you (generally) say: What is your real name / Sorry, you’re still (insert birth name) to me / What is your actual name, etc.

Why you shouldn’t say it: You have to understand that a transperson’s identity is very fragile. Even the strongest of trans* individuals still has issues with self-perception and dysphoria. Accidentally dropping one of these into a conversation is bad. Why? Because using words like “real” and “actual” gives off the not so subtle vibe that their current identity is the opposite of these words, fake. If a person wants to disclose the name they were given at birth with you, they will. Saying that a person is still a name they don’t identify with can make a trans* person feel like you don’t accept their identity, which can be devastating, especially on a bad day. When you’re questioning everything you’re supposed to feel about yourself, having a friend do it just perpetuates the confusion and self-hate.

What you should say: I’m sorry, it’s going to take me awhile to adjust but know my mistakes aren’t out of malice or me not accepting you, but sheer habit.

2. What you (generally) say: So do you want me to call you a dude/chick now? / Am I supposed to call you by your actual titles or not? / Are you a guy or girl? / What do you want me to call you?

Why you shouldn’t say it: If a trans*person is to the point where they are publicly transitioning, throwing around words can be a lot more harmful than helpful. The way a trans* people carries present themselves is a very important and conflicting point of interaction. It is literally trying to rearrange the way society sees you in order for it to match up with how you feel internally. Carelessly referring to a trans*person as their wrong gender, or implying that their presenting gender is not their “real” gender is extremely hurtful and can come off as an attack and a show of disapproval. While every person will prefer their own set of pronouns, assuming or wrongly addressing your friend is a bad way to go.

What you should say: What pronouns do you prefer?

3. What you (generally) say: So is sex different? / How will you do it if you don’t have the right parts / Are you gay then?

Why you shouldn’t say it: Number one, a person’s sexual identity has absolutely nothing to do with their gender identity. Nothing. Whatsoever. Nothing. As in, not related at all. Number two, how would you like someone busting in, asking your girlfriend what your sex noises sound like or your favorite toy to use, or something equally embarrassing? What a trans*person does in the privacy of their bedroom is of no concern to you, and just because you’re curious and confused does not mean you get to objectify people to feel better about yourself. If you wouldn’t ask your girlfriend’s protective father about it, or your grandmother, then you shouldn’t ask a trans*person.

What you should say: Nothing.

findingsherlock:

A handy way of telling cis people to stop asking about your junk. Makes a great reply when you are too offended to deal with them.
Also, here is the single card design if you want it:

findingsherlock:

A handy way of telling cis people to stop asking about your junk. Makes a great reply when you are too offended to deal with them.

Also, here is the single card design if you want it:

Okay so I’m interesting in getting some form of prosthetic so I’ve been looking around, not that I haven’t been before though. 

Anyways I’ve been waiting since before January to see what Phase 3 of Tyrone’s prothetic was going to look like and everything because I found his site a long time ago after seeing how Lolajake treats their customers and how their product didn’t have a very long lifetime. I checked out HomeGrown and it’s not something I want. I don’t want one that would attach to me with tape. I want a stronger hold and not worry about my dick falling off. So then I found other places LikeRealUSA, which is not out of business or going by a different name not sure cuz their site no longer works. And then I thought I found the one I wanted/could settle for with ReelMagic. Then their prices went up.

So I went back to pretty much giving up on everything to do with getting one since they were all out of my price range and didn’t really live up to what I wanted. Then I got a comment on one of my videos.

TheUltimateProsthetic

Now, they are obviously a new company, as you can see from their product. But they offer the same basic thing as everyone else except like Tyrone theirs is an STP also. And guess what they are a fraction of the price. Now, honestly I’m not in love with the way their product works and how their business conduct isn’t completely professional. For example they have an Advanced Model which has foreskin and I was really interested in that so I asked to see if there would be a photo of that on their site too or a video soon. they told me they had sold the one they had to a customer already and hadn’t taken any pictures of it but that in the STP in use video it was the advanced model. Not that you can even notice foreskin on it from that far away/ angle even. So that was a bit disappointing. But what I do have to say it that their customer service and willingness to work with their customers pretty much makes up for anything. And once they get more into this sort of thing I’m pretty sure their products will be close to flawless.

On the other hand, Tyrone. Not so great with customer service. He had a new office located in the States now and his prosthetic is listed as one able to be covered by insurance. But upon asking him if I could get the paper that I could send to my insurance company all was given was a cost analysis. Now I’m not sure about other places but in the US you need codes to file with insurance companies so they will actually cover things. He didn’t even know about any of that so I gave him all the information I new about and tried to help to the best of my abilities since I know if other guys could be able to get covered they would want to since his product costs just under $1500. Which is not something I can afford right now or even in a year. He got back to me and told me since he’ll have such a long wait list for orders I should try and find somewhere else to buy from. He then even went on to saying getting all the information for the insurance (which is 2 codes, and applying for a free EIN number) was too much for him to waste his time on. He told me to go and ask my doctor (which would have no idea what I was talking about or have any idea on how to help me) and go to forums and find that information out because he couldn’t be bothered to do so. Saying he need to get his product up on the site and start getting sold. This little bit of interaction makes me not even want to order from him, it sounds like all he wants is money and doesn’t care if he’s helping anyone out or not. 

I just don’t get it. I mean being trans is hard enough will all the costs of hormones, surgery, doctors visits, consutations, therapy, and now prosthetics. Being trans himself shouldn’t he want to help more.

So idk, right now I don’t want to buy from him. I’d rather go spend my money on a company that is there for their customers and doesn’t want to charge and arm and a leg.

Eden Fantasys is having a site wide sale but I just saw they are having a sale on their silicone products, which includes vixskin products. The Mr. Right is going for $39.74 US. Thought if anyone was short on cash but wanted one or any other silicone cock to check it out. 

http://www.edenfantasys.com/promotions/sales/set-the-mood-silicone-sale/